12/14/09

How to deal with Conflict?


Don't create enemies Unncecessarily.


We should understand that a sober,dispassionate opinion is much more powerful and less troublesome than an impulsive reply.


Even when someone is undobtedly resposible for a misdeed,it is advisable to directly avoid attcking him by name.There is a bengali proverb which says-chunco mere hatha ganda-if you want to kill a skunk,then your hands will smell.In other words,there is no sense in creating enemies unnecessarily,better to disregard the stinker altogather.We donot wish to engage in endless confict that disturbs our life as well as lives of others.


When Dharma,the bull was asked by King Parikshit to identify who mercilesly mutilated his legs,Dharma did not care to cast guilt upon anyone because he considered that there were superior and remote causes for his misfortune beyond the immediate actors.
Hence it is inaccurate to lay blame on someone else for unpleasant things that happen to us.


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